S4 Ep. 272 The Marriage Vow

SPEAKER_00: The sacred things of life. Do you know them? One of it is called the marriage vow. It is so sacred because it has to do with two people and divinity. I overheard two friends talking about it, musing about it. And I was opportuned to eavedroph on them. So listen. Hello friend that's Hello Wattsmith. Yes, my friend. Your countenance carries weight tonight, like a thought suspended in midair, waiting to be caught, inked and bled out on parchment. Ah you know me too well, like Charles Xavier Reathing Minds. You peek into the corridors of my silence. It's unnerving but conforting too. I have watched how you dance in stillness. The way noise fades when your soul speaks. I know when a word begins to form in you, and when it does, I prepare to listen, because what spills from you tends to find its home in me. Tonight is the marriage vow that has taken hostage of my mind a thought not loud, but femme, and refusing to be ignored, then offer it the stage. Give it your all, let it breathe through you. Do you ever wonder how we men and women stand before altar and witness, uttering sacred syllables with trembling joy, only to cast them away like yesterday's confetti after the spark of desire dies down those vows, those words locked away like rusted tools, in a forgotten workshop of broken things. But hear them, yes, hear them again. Slowly. Now let us take it. I put your name there. Take you, put your name there, to be my yes, husband or wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance, and hereto I pledge you my love and faithfulness. Tell me, does that sound like a contract? No. It is breath made word, it is soul sealed with fire, a covenant, a bond wrapped in eternity's whisper. Within those words lies unity, not just between man and woman, but man, woman, and God. A threefold cord not easily broken. Faithfulness, that ancient root from which love drinks deep. Love doesn't thrive on feeling, it blossoms in fidelity. My friend, you speak as though truth walked in and sat with us. I knew something stared in you. These words, they demand more than hearing. They ask to believe. I'll pick up my vows again, not just to remember them, but to be them. Yes, my dear friend, for the only way to make something sacred lose its glow is to dress it up cheap, to sell it for applause, to convince the bearer it's a burden instead of a crown. But some things, some words must never be forgotten, lest we forget who we were when we first set them. So I heard the conversation and captured these thoughts. So how sacred do we view the marriage vow? You know, in this age of cancel culture, you know, we begin to challenge what ordinarily holds us together. No, ask yourself this question. No, do go ahead. For those who are married or those who want to venture into the institution or the institute of marriage. The vow. Do you know what that means? Have you sat down? It is not about feeling, it's about decision. Your partnering with divinity. Now, the woman partners with divinity, the man partners with divinity, both partners with divinity in bringing about divinity's plan on earth. Because that is where it stems from. But again, to make something precious and sacred look like is nothing is to wear it like a cheap clothing. Sit down. Yes, you sit down. And in your anger towards your partner, your wife, or your husband, as the case may be, pick up the vow again and look at it. Remember the weaknesses, not just the human weaknesses, the divine weaknesses. I like the way the Bible puts it. We are surrounded by so cloud, I mean so large a weakness, a cloud of witnesses. So we're not alone. The marriage vow. The future is dependent on it. The future. In your anger, read the vow again. In your pain, read the vow again. Yes, in that noise, read the vow again. You will come to see the door, the way, the truth, the light that will lead you through that challenge with your husband, with your wife, with your partner. Do you know why? Sacred. So I read this piece of scripture about covenants. The first place a covenant was made, or in my opinion, expressed between God and man. Just to let you know how sacred the vow is. It was between Abraham and God. God provided everything. And God told him how to prepare the sacrifice, how to, you know, put the elements. He brought some animals. He brought sheep, goat, and the dove. And God told him how to split it. And God said, I'm going to come down to cut covenant with you. Now, this is the beautiful thing about covenants or vows. They are sacred, they are spiritual. So when God came down, the way the scripture puts it, he walked in between. And Abraham was also there in between with blood dripping. And God said, This is how my body, this is how I, God, would bleed, will be split if I don't uphold my own end of the covenant. So God vowed. Can you imagine? So that's like a marriage relationship between Abraham and God. And God held on to that vow. He made a vow. We all in the marriage relationship have made a vow. And we need to keep the vow. A lot of so many marriages globally going through stuff challenged by the economy, by the culture. That this is what I think a good number of us have forgetting. The vow. And that is what I came to share with you on this episode of the World Cafe. unknown: The vow.